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Nearly Departed

A Memoir: Adventures in Loss, Cancer, and Other Inconveniences

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By the time she was thirty, Gila Pfeffer was the oldest living member of her family, having lost her mother to breast cancer and her father to colon cancer. A simple blood test confirmed she carried the BRCA1 gene—which put her at high risk of developing cancer herself. Determined to break the cycle of early death in her family, Gila decides to undergo an elective double mastectomy.
This memoir follows her journey as she becomes a reluctant expert on how to sit shiva, grows up, falls in love, and enters motherhood, before her life is derailed yet again. Her double mastectomy reveals cancer already growing in one breast.
After enduring eight rounds of chemo and the removal of her ovaries, she takes her last-ever dip in the mikvah waters as a bald, menopausal, thirty-five-year-old mother of four. With chutzpah honed over years of repeatedly surviving the worst, she manages to save her own life.
Drenched in Gila's dark humor, Nearly Departed is a story about thriving against the odds, committing to what's important, and leaving a better legacy than the one you inherited.
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    • Publisher's Weekly

      April 22, 2024
      Pfeffer seamlessly blends tears and laughter in her vibrant debut memoir. Pfeffer’s mother and maternal grandmother both died of breast cancer in their early 40s. Her mother’s death left Pfeffer responsible for her younger siblings just as she was starting college, and made her afraid that she too would succumb to cancer. In 2005, when Pfeffer was 31, a blood test confirmed she had a genetic mutation that gave her a nearly 90% chance of developing breast cancer. In the midst of juggling a nascent fashion career and the early stages of motherhood, she opted to have a double mastectomy. Doctors found cancer in one of the breasts they removed, spurring Pfeffer’s two younger sisters to receive the same procedure. She vividly complements descriptions of her struggles—including her fears of leaving her children motherless and her encounters with callous healthcare providers—with humor, as in a chapter that recounts things people said to her during chemotherapy (“You’re so lucky you don’t have to waste any time doing your hair, you just throw on your wig and you’re out the door!”). The results are as funny as they are heartfelt and inspiring. Agent: Myrsini Stephanides, Arc Literary Management.

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